If you watch enough “Cop” shows you know anger is often the motivator for violence. Besides physical violence to self or another there is the killing of relationships. A marriage can die a slow death because we have forgotten why we originally loved that other person. Perhaps we have laid our goals and expectations on their behaviors. Our belief or fantasy of what our life was “supposed” to be somehow just has not worked out. Often it is easier to blame a spouse than to look in the mirror and claim some responsibility. Personal intentions work far better. Try to remember why you originally loved the person. Try each day to see two things that you still love. Stop looking for reasons to be mad and to fight. If you are stuck in a bad cycle in your marital relationship contact Contemporary Care Centers. We are a full service psychiatric practice. We offer a variety of therapies that can help work out problems. We also provide medication management, and treatments for depression, Visit www.contemporarycarecenters.com to view all our services and meet the team.We welcome new patients. All major insurance is accepted including Medicare. Telehealth is offered for your safety and convenience. Call 203-792-0400.Bring peace back into your life. Call 203-792-0400